Johnny Preston Calling for Boo Bull Clubs |
On August 15, 2017, the Boo Bull Square Dance Clubs featured national
caller Johnny Preston at their air-conditioned hall in Henrietta. An
A1/A2 dance was held in the afternoon, followed by an evening Plus
dance. As you can see from the photos, a great time was had by
all—incluuding Johnny.
Born in California, Johnny began calling in 1976 while attending Wayne
State University in Michigan. He is a full-time caller who travels
across the United States and is often featured at festivals and
resorts throughout the world.
Johnny was also featured as a square dance caller in a national
television ad for Ameritrade. Johnny is internationally known
for his enthusiastic style and wonderful singing voice. Calling Basic
to C-1, Johnny is always a crowd pleaser at dances. Dancers
don‘t want to miss a dance when Johnny comes to town!
Johnny is the founder of Hoedowns for Humanity, a foundation created
to raise friends and funds for local affiliates of Habitat for
Humanity at the same time raising awareness of the square dance
activity throughout the country.
ALS Rochester Walk for Jerry |
Honor the memory of Jerry Carmen by participating in the ALS Rochester Walk on Saturday, September 16, at Ontario Beach Park. Registration begins at 9:30 AM; Walk begins at 11:00 AM. Click HERE to consult the flyer for information on joining our team “Promenading for Jerry” and making a contribution.
Square Dance Do’s and Don’ts |
DO be aware at all times that square dancing is a
“courtesy” recreation rather than one of competition.
DO keep smiling even if you are angry with yourself for
“goofing.” The other seven people in the square might
think that you are frowning at them.
DO recognize your corner and remember who he or she is. Next to your
partner this dancer is the most important to you of all in your
square.
DO be quiet and attentive to the caller during instructions even
though you know what he is explaining. Perhaps someone else in your
square needs to be briefed.
DO leave sharp jewelry at home. It can cut fingers or catch on
clothes and inflict injury.
DO wear proper square dance attire - long sleeves for men - ladies
wear full skirts, petti-pants and low-heeled shoes suitable for
square dancing.
DO remember to treat all ladies as you would want other men to treat
your wife or girlfriend. The ladies always seem to treat other men a
little gentler than their partners.
DO wear name badges at all times. It might surprise some of the
oldsters to learn that they are not as well-known as they thought.
Many dancers are not aware of the origin of the name badge. When
western style dancing began to flourish, someone suggested that
everyone should be identified by means of a name badge so that
dancers would be on a first name basis to further friendly fellowship
and recreation. Some clubs decided to add their club name and the
city or area where it was located. They also created original designs
for their badges. THE RUDE SQUARE DANCER IS THE ONE WITHOUT A BADGE,
because this places other dancers in the embarrassing position of not
being able to address you by name. DON’T BE RUDE.
DO admit it when you “goof.” Next time it could be
someone else’s turn, so you needn’t feel bad about it.
When you “goof,” do it gracefully and recover as best you
can in order to keep your square from breaking down.
DO remember your position when you square up—heads,
sides, what couple number and, in some instances, whether you are in
a boy or girl position.
DO end each dance with a flourish, applause and sincere THANKS to all
in your square.
DON’T be a “competitive” dancer. Instead cooperate
with the other seven people in your set to make a good square.
DON’T be over-exuberant. Your yell might drown out the next
call for everyone around you. If you want to make noise, do it at the
right time -- during an extended call like right or left grand or
promenade, or best of all after the final call.
DON’T be a “know-it-all.” Let the caller be the
instructor, unless someone asks you for help at the close of a tip.
DON’T cut in or out of a square unless you know how. And if you
are cut out, leave gracefully.
DON’T be guilty of “horseplay” unless you are
positive your square and the club will not be offended.
DON’T take that extra swing with your partner. It might make
her late for the left allemande with her waiting corner.
DON’T forget: It is the lady who determines whether or not she
wishes to twirl. If her hand is held high, she would like to twirl.
If it is low, she does not wish to twirl.
DON’T forget to trade a dance, especially with the guests. And
don’t overlook the caller’s wife. She might like to
dance. ASK HER.
DON’T sit like a “bump on a log” when another
couple is needed to complete a square. If you want to sit out a tip,
leave the floor—go to the rest room or where you can not
be seen. This prevents embarrassment to you and to the three couples
wishing to square up.
DON’T complain about the caller, the hall, the sound or the
tacky floor. Seek to find the good things about the dance and express
them. Your attitude will contribute to your enjoyment as well as to
the enjoyment of others around you.
DON’T pre-arrange sets of four couples before square up. You
insult the ability of other dancers and reflect a snobbish image
contrary to the democratic ideals square dancers wish to exemplify.
If you wish to dance with friends, you and another couple could stand
in opposite positions in the set and allow two other couples to join
you.
DON’T insist on dancing your way when visiting other areas. If
these people dance palms up on the Alamo, go along with it. If they
do or do not stir the bucket, DO AS THE ROMANS DO—EAT
ROMAN CANDLES—but keep your opinions to yourself.
DON’T try to help the caller when filling in with a new class
by explaining or pushing or pulling. Dance as though it is your first
night also.
DON’T “PARTAKE OF ALCOHOLIC BEVERAGES BEFORE, OR DURING,
THE DANCE.” Some people object; others may not wish to be close
to you with alcohol on your breath. Children are often present, and
many clubs dance in churches or schools. Drinking may even adversely
affect your dancing ability. This is a cardinal rule of square
dancing.
DON’T be “breath offensive.” Ask a friend for gum
or mints if you forget yours.
DON’T forget to use a deodorant after your pre-dance bath or
shower. You may become quite warm when you are dancing.
DON’T be a “ROUGH HANDLER.” Use light, easy
handholds; that is, don’t grab or squeeze tight on
box-the-gnats, grand right and lefts, circling, etc. Many dancers
suffer from arthritis that makes a tight grip very painful.
NOT DRINK ALCOHOLIC BEVERAGES AT DANCES? Alcohol inhibits our ability
to listen and perform. Alcohol reduces our reaction time making us a
poorer dancer. In addition, square dancing is a wholesome,
family-oriented activity.
BELONG TO A CLUB? Clubs are needed to organize dances and establish a
means to enjoy the fellowship of square dancing. To survive they need
an active membership where everyone helps. Volunteer, don’t
wait to be asked.
STAY NON-COMPETITIVE? In square dancing we want everyone to have fun.
This works best when there are no winners and losers.
OVERLOOK MISTAKES BY OTHERS? We all make mistakes …
Everyone is trying to do it right. Encourage them.
WEAR NAME BADGES? Badges enable us to be on a first name basis which
furthers friendly fellowship.
WELCOME NEW DANCERS? New dancers are the lifeblood of our activity.
Only with their enthusiasm and ideas can dancing continue to
flourish.
Our Most Sincere Thank You |
Receiving the DAPHNE-NORMA LEADERSHIP AWARD was a totally wonderful surprise! We listened to the award being announced and when some of our unique ‘theme’ nights were mentioned we both looked at each other and said “that’s us!” We were in shock and so humbled. This leadership award would not have been possible without all the hard work and commitment over the years by our very dedicated Board of Directors who have supported us and worked so diligently and enthusiastically to keep our club going strong and growing. We are honored and truly value this award. Be on the lookout for us as we visit your dances throughout the year and we will bring along the famous candy dish to celebrate.
The DAPHNE-NORMA LEADERSHIP AWARD has been presented annually at dance-O-Rama since 1977, with the exception of 1997. It recognizes dancers from the Rochester area square and round dance community who have contributed in an outstanding way to the well-being of square and round dancing, and who have demonstrated this leadership for an extended period of time. Leadership styles vary greatly as each person is different, but going that extra mile for the sake of other dancers, and of dancing itself, is something we can all celebrate.
As you read this today, please take a moment to nominate someone whom
you believe is deserving of the DAPHNE-NORMA LEADERSHIP AWARD,
recognizing their continuing leadership efforts in the square dance
community.
Send your nomination for 2018 to the 2017 recipients:
Bob & Alice Hager
306 Cherry Creek Lane
Rochester NY 14626
(or email: rhager2@rochester.rr.com)
(Link to 2017 nomination information)
Insurance Reminder |
Current insurance for Square Dancers expires on December 31, and the forms to insure dancers and dancing sites for 2018 need to be submitted by mid-October. As soon as the current rates and forms are available, I will email them to the president and the person in charge of insurance for each club. For efficient transfer of this information, if there has been a change of contact from last year, please email me with the current name and address. (Forms will also be available on the RAF website.) Thank you in advance for your help in this important matter.
Letter to the Editor |
Many people have suggested finding a new place for larger dances.
It isn’t as easy as it sounds. In the past George Ahn and Mary
Lou Altman checked out many places that were suggested. They looked
at size of the room, whether it was air conditioned, if it had a
kitchen nearby, what nights of the week it could be rented, the cost
of rental, is adequate parking available and can we bring food in.
They narrowed it down, mainly due to the cost.
Until you have done this yourself, you wouldn’t believe how
much places rent for. As an example, several of us went to Artisan
Works as that was mentioned and there was a demo done there last
year. A room the size we would need would rent for $5,000. Of course
that is way over budget.
When Copy Cats had the Tim Mariner dance a couple years ago, the hall
at St. John Fisher cost $1,000. The hall at Assumption Church rented
for $180 which is more typical of what some places charge.
You also have to be aware of sound. With high ceilings or cement, the
sound doesn’t carry as well to some parts of the room, so you
can’t hear it very well.
It would be nice to have a committee that could check out places on
both the east and west sides of the city. We need suggestions from
everyone. Maybe you went to an event and thought to yourself that
would be a nice place to have a dance.
Unless someone is willing to go the extra mile and ask the important
questions, the rest of us would not know of this place. No place is
off limits. Ask, Ask, Ask. Please give your suggestions to one of the
Federation officers or your Federation Rep, and if you’re
willing to investigate locations, please let them know that as well.
In Memoriam: Jerry Carmen, August 8, 2017 |
Jerry Carmen, 78, Spencerport, died Tuesday, August 8, 2017. He was
born December 13, 1938, in Holyoke, MA, the son of Irving and Virginia
Margaret (Norris) Carmen. He was of the Jewish faith.
He grew up in Chicopee, MA, graduating from Chicopee High School in
1957. He enlisted in the U.S. Army, serving as a Still
Photographer. In 1966, he received a Bachelor of Science Degree in
Mechanical Engineering from Western New England College. He worked at
Eastman Kodak Company and ITT Corporation, retiring in 2006 after 40
years of service. Jerry moonlighted as a square dance caller during
his working years and in 1989 founded the popular square dance calling
group, the Hip Boot Boys. During his retirement years he continued his
passion for square dancing, as well as round dance and line dance
instruction, and choreographed a number of round dances.
Jerry also enjoyed collecting antiques, stamps, and coins; repairing,
and refinishing furniture; artwork in the form of watercolors, pen and
pencil drawings, stenciling, and sign painting; and watch and clock
repair. He had a facility for foreign languages, being fluent in
French, German, and Hebrew. He was a member of CallerLab, the
Caller’s Co-operative of Rochester, and the National Association
of Watch and Clock Collectors.
He met Elisabeth (Betty) Louise Primmer through the University of
Massachusetts Heymakers Square Dance Club. They were engaged in 1963,
wed June 18, 1966, in Williamstown, MA, then moved to Spencerport.
Jerry was preceded in death by his parents, and a brother, Morris
Carmen.
Surviving are his wife, Betty Carmen of the home; four children, Debby
Henrikson (Don) of Thompsontown, PA, Dan Carmen (Jen) of North Chili,
Dennis Carmen of Albany, and Diana Papa (Brad) of Greece; two
grandsons, Zachary and Joshua Carmen of North Chili; a sister, Sadie
St. John (Leonard) of Holyoke MA; five brothers, Paul Carmen (Lorenda)
and Larry Carmen (Anne) of Chicopee, MA, Harvey Carmen (Sherry) of
Tullahoma, TN, David Carmen (Nancy) of Granby, MA, Sam Carmen (Min
Cha) of Waldorf, MD; a sister-in-law, Rosa Carmen; and many nieces and
nephews.
Memorial contributions may be made to the ALS Association Upstate New
York Chapter, 135 Old Cove Rd, Ste 213, Liverpool, NY 13090; or
Paralyzed Veterans of America, 801 18th St NW, Washington, DC 20006;
or St. John’s Cemetery, 55 Martha St, Spencerport, NY 14559.
In Memoriam: Mike Herne, June 24, 2017 |
Michael B. Herne, of Victor, NY, passed away on June 24, 2017, at age
75. He is survived by his wife, Ann Kingsley-Herne; children, Kim
Staffieri, Kelly Hoffmann, Josette Campana, Jenn Jackson, Christopher
Engert, Nathaniel Herne; 11 grandchildren; 4 great-grandchildren;
many siblings, nieces, nephews and friends.
As an active square dance caller in the greater Rochester area, Mike
called regularly for clubs such as the Belles ‘N‘ Beaus,
Dalton Gang and Victor Swing-A-Longs. He had a wonderful singing
voice and a seemingly endless repertoire of “groaner”
jokes.
He and his wife stepped in to shoulder the task of Subscription
Editors for the Promenader when the previous holder of this
responsibility (Dorothy Woodams) died suddenly in a car crash.
In 2010, Mike and Ann Herne received the Daphne-Norma
Leadership award for their contributions to square and round dancing
in the Rochester area.
Mike’s Funeral Service was held on Thursday, June 29, in the Victor
United Methodist Church. Interment was held privately. Funeral
arrangements by MillerofVictor.com
In Memoriam: Marilyn Andraszek, July 6, 2017 |
Marilyn was a former Cloverleafs member who loved square dancing. She
even convinced her son to start lessons and he did dance for a
while. She loved dressing up for Halloween and one year no one could
figure out who it was until the unveiling. She was game for most
everything and loved to travel. Her family was very important to her.
She is survived by her son Michael, two daughters, Debra Callaghan and
Lori VanScotar, 4 grandchildren, two sisters, one brother and many
nieces and nephews and friends.
Contributions may be made to Journey Home, 994 Long Pond Rd, Rochester
14626 or Gilda‘s Club Rochester, 255 Alexander St., Rochester 14607.