Daphne-Norma Award Nominations are due by the end of February |
We would not be dancing if it weren’t for the extra efforts of a few
dancers who consistently go out of their way to make things happen, to
welcome and encourage new dancers and to help keep experienced dancers
engaged. The Daphne-Norma Leadership Award is one of the ways we
recognize and honor these special people.
The award is presented each year in May, at Dance O Rama, to honor
an individual or couple who have made an outstanding contribution to
dancing in our area. Recipients are selected from nominations sent in
by dancers like you.
This is an award for dancers from other dancers. It’s an opportunity
to recognize service that stands out from others. Anyone can fill out
and send a nomination, and nominations are saved over the years. The
deadline for nominations is the end of February.
Now is the time to think about nominating dancers YOU appreciate for
the Daphne-Norma Leadership Award. If you don’t take the time to
nominate them, their contributions may go unrecognized.
Nomination forms, along with a more complete description of the award
and its historical background and guidelines for nomination, are
available online via the Awards page on the WNYF website, or by
contacting the most recent recipients—Linda and Glynn English—at
glynnenglish@earthlink.net. You’ve probably seen them at a dance or
two…with the Daphne-Norma Traveling Candy Dish.
If that’s too much trouble, simply send an email to Linda and Glynn
with the following information:
Circle of Service Award Presented to Two Copy Cats Couples |
On Saturday, September 21, 2024, Rick & Donna LaDonna, along with
Debbie & Jeff Blood and Mary Jo & David Webster, presented the
Circle of Service Award to Lorraine and Gary Granath.
The Award is presented to those individuals who for three or more
years have contributed to the square dance community. Gary and
Lorraine joined the Copy Cats after graduating in the 2016 class. They
served as Copy Cats’ Refreshment Chairs. In this capacity, they
attended every dance for their two-year term arranging for volunteers,
organized set-up and clean-up quietly and efficiently.
Gary volunteered his carpentry skills and made a platform for our
water jug, constructed a new travel holder for our Copy Cats banner
and re-engineered one of our Copy Cats sandwich board signs. Both have
helped with our Copy Cats Annual Holiday Dinners since 2019. They
assisted in all capacities—serving on committees, buying supplies,
set-up, serving and clean-up. Additionally, Gary and Lorraine served
the Federation as co-secretaries for a two-year term and have served
on the DOR Committee for many years. After they thought they could sit
back and dance the nights away, they selflessly volunteered to rejoin
the Copy Cats Board as Secretaries. Their love of dancing and their
desire to keep our Club and Federation going shows in the thoughtful
ideas they brought forth at board meetings. Gary and Lorraine have met
all the criteria, and we were proud to present the Circle of Service
Award to them.
On September 24, 2024, the LaDonna’s and the Blood’s presented the
Circle of Service Award to Phyllis and Charlie Smeltzer at their home
due to Phyllis’ illness.
Phyllis and Charlie have been members of the Copy Cats for many
years. We personally have known them for more than 12 years. They are
the most dedicated dancers and angels we have known. With few
exceptions, they are present at every Copy Cats class session from
September to May. On the dance floor, they are among the first to join
a square and help the new dancers navigate the calls. They are always
ready to step in to the breech wherever they are needed. They arrive
early for classes (or dances) to help set-up and stay late to help
with clean-up. In addition, they have taken some of our more
challenging students under their wing. They are always smiling and
social to both new and old members of the Club. Charlie is always seen
supporting the Club by buying 50/50 and turkey raffle tickets. They
always attend DOR where they usually place themselves in squares where
dancers may be having problems. They support other Clubs in the
Federation. They are often seen dancing at Bubel’s, at Cloverleaf
Squares, and others, where they show the same support to students and
new dancers as they do at our Club.
Additionally, they have been active in their community. He is a bus
driver; she is a bus monitor. They are very family-oriented and enjoy
spending hours with their children and grandchildren. They have been
dedicated Civil War historical interpreters and dancers. They
participated in historical reenactments at Gettysburg and at local
sites to educate today’s youth about the Civil War. As a couple, they
have been active participants in restorations and re-dedications of
Civil War veterans’ graves. In addition, he has participated in
“living history” regarding the Civil War at the Genesee Country
Museum. They were interim class coordinators and members of the Copy
Cats Board.
We were honored to present the Circle of Service Award to Charlie and
Phyllis Smeltzer.
Addendum: Phyllis passed away on October 23, 2024. She will be sadly
missed by the writers and the entire square dance community.
Circle of Service Awards Presented in November |
On November 24, 2024, Sharon Meyer was presented with the
“Circle of Service Award” at a Cloverleaf Squares
dance. Previous recipients Jeff and Debbie Blood presented it to her
for her service to the square and round dance community. The award is
given to dancers who have contributed significantly to the square and
round dance Community for three years or more.
Congratulations Sharon! This is a well-deserved award for all your
dedication and service to the Western NY Federation of Square and
Round Dancers since we became involved. For more than five years you
have been serving behind the scenes in many ways, including the
Dance-O-Rama committee for more than five years; executing contracts
for all Federation sponsored events (DOR, special dances, demos,
etc.); as an appointed standing member of the Daphne Norma Leadership
Award Selection Committee, our highest honor given to a dancer or
couple; and as a staff member of the Promenader staff.
Sharon continues to make significant contributions through her
responsibilities and the support and guidance she provides.
Congratulations also to Sue Sepkowski of the Silver Squares. On
November 25, 2024, Sue was presented with the nationally recognized
Circle of Service Award by previous recipients, Anne Granger and Don
Naulin.
Sue is quiet, hardworking, unassuming dancer always asking,
“What can I do to help?” and is there helping. Sue is the
past president of Silver Squares and held the VP position prior to
that. She was a Federation Representative for several years and on the
Federation Board for a short time. Sue is square dancing contact for
the Greece United Methodist Church for Silver Squares and was also the
contact for the Federation’s post-Covid special summer dances.
Sue continues to help angel new dancers at other clubs, since Silver
Squares doesn’t offer classes. Sue is a constant supporter at
Federation events (DOR, demos, etc.) assisting with set-up, selling
tickets and whatever else is needed. She is friendly, kind, and
positive to all who come into contact with her. She is known to give
up her spot on the dance floor if someone has not danced in a
while. Sue continues to actively support square dancing in our area
and is always there behind the scenes ready and willing to help.
WNYF Circle of Service Awards |
Lately you have been hearing a lot about the Circle of Service Awards
being received by our dancers for their dedication, service in support
of our dancing community. These awards are being presented to dancers
in recognition of their significant contributions to our dancing
community over a period of at least three years. There are all kinds
of ways dancers can contribute to square dancing over and above the
dancing itself. Some stand out and are noticed immediately, while
others are less noticeable behind the scenes helping square dancing
stay alive and active. The flurry of awards since 2021 reflects an
increased awareness of the “unsung” contributors in the
dancing community.
The Circle of Service Award is a dancer award, presented only by
dancers who have themselves previously received the same award. It is
a nationally recognized award. The award consists of a framed award
certificate and a proudly worn pin. The award began in 1985, to
recognize dancers who for three years or more have made a significant
contribution to the square and round dance community.
The Circle of Service pin shows the stellar hub of the circle formed
by a pattern of arcs and symbolizes the importance of each such person
to the total picture. The same circular shapes flow outward to stylize
musical symbols. This linear interplay suggests the strong bond
between square and round dancing.
Many of the recent awards have been received by members of our
Federation clubs and Federation leadership who through their
dedication and diligent efforts, brought their clubs back to the dance
floor safely and kept dancing alive in Western New York following the
Covid Pandemic. The intention of the Circle of Service Award is to
honor and recognize those individuals or couples whose contributions
too often go unrewarded.
Within the past few years, the Federation Board voted to pay for all
the costs related to both the Daphne-Norma Award and Circle of
Services Awards. Previously, it was the presenter who paid for the
awards, pins, plaques, etc.
For a Circle of Service Award recipient to give the award to another
person, they just need to contact Debbie & Jeff Blood,
Co-Presidents of the Federation, to arrange for the framed award
certificate and pin. The Bloods maintain the master list of all the
Circle of Service awards given to our members, along with copies of
all presentations. In honor and appreciation of receiving the award
themselves, you will find several previous Circle of Service Award
recipients attending these award presentations for others.
Changes Coming for the Promenader |
After ten years in its present on-line form, which were preceded by
fifty-two years in hardcopy form, what you are reading now will be the
final issue of my tenure as editor. Two years of searching has not
brought forward a new editor to succeed me.
The “Club News” and “Photo/Feature” articles
that have been the heart of the on-line Promenader will not be going
away. They will continue to appear, but submissions will go directly
to the webmaster.
To facilitate this, some aspects of the website may be revised over
the next few months, and a new set of submission guidelines will be
posted and distributed to club leaders and reporters.
This is a bittersweet transition for me, but the center of my life has
shifted far away from the Rochester area and, maybe even from square
dancing. Time will tell. Webmaster Sidney Marshall and former
Promenader editor Betty Ludwick did a great job a decade ago,
translating the Promenader’s traditional look and feel into the
on-line era and blending it with Sidney’s pre-existing online
database of schedule and other information.
I’d like to thank section editors Bonnie Allen (Schedules), Leon
Smith (Club News) and Sharon Meyer (Class-Club events and Obituaries)
for their assistance over the full decade of the online
Promenader’s existence—sharing the quarterly workload to
prepare submitted content for Sidney to post. I’d also like to
thank a rotating corps of proofreaders who catch our typos and other
rough edges before the final product “goes live” every
three months. The currently active proofreaders are Carl Webster,
Susan Thomas, Rick & Donna LaDonna, Jim Gotta, Jeff & Debbie
Blood and Sharon Meyer.
I will remain available to help club reporters with the transition.
WNYF to Host Free Friday Night Dance in June to feature Amateur Callers & Cuers |
Answering the call to help promote interest in square dance calling
and cueing, the Western NY Federation is reviving the tradition by
hosting an amateur calling and cueing event in June 2025. The
Cloverleaf Squares’ “Roaring Tiger” trophy is coming
out of hibernation and will be awarded to the most entertaining
amateur.
Volunteer amateur callers and cuers are encouraged to
participate. Please reach out to our WNYF callers and cuers for help
and advice. They are fantastic and they encourage newbies to try
calling and cueing. Experienced callers and cuers are glad to guide
you on music selection or obtaining cue sheets, if need be.
Ron Brown, Mike Callahan, and Jim Gotta will also be calling and cueing
at this Free Dance so please mark your calendar for Friday, June 20,
2025. It will be at the Perinton Memorial VFW, 300 Macedon Center Rd,
Fairport, NY.
In March or April, we will be asking participants to register for this
event so we can plan our dance program for the evening. We are looking
forward to hearing our talented participants try calling and cueing.
So, please think about it and pick a favorite singing call or round
dance tune. Then see one of our local callers for advice on getting
what you need to start practicing.
We have heard from many past participants how much fun it is to step
forward and take part in events like this—even for those who
have no plans to ever become a caller or cuer.
Dancers, you play an important role in this too! Please make a strong
showing to support and encourage our participants. We are looking
forward to a fun evening of dancing with our members and recent
graduates.
Silver Squares Halloween Dance—October 28, 2024 |
Our Halloween dance at Silver Squares is always a lot of fun!! Laughter, dancing, and food always make for a great afternoon. Mike Callahan, caller for Silver Squares, had our costumed dancers promenade in a circle and then everyone voted for the best costume. Joann Baxter, Diane and Richard Cundra won the contest!!
Silver Squares Crazy Hat Dance—September 30, 2024 |
Silver Squares Dance Club had a “Crazy Hat” dance on September 30th. Four squares of people wore their crazy hats and danced to caller Mike Callahan. Lots of laughs and lots of fun!!!
Silver Squares Soup and Sandwich Dance—October 14, 2024 |
The Silver Squares Dance Club Annual Soup and Sandwich dance was a hit! Six different soups, a variety of sandwiches and many desserts were enjoyed by all. Five squares of people not only ate but danced too. What a fun day!
Silver Squares Pizza Party—September 16, 2024 |
Five squares of dancers welcomed in the Fall with a Pizza Party!! Monday afternoon is a lot of fun at Silver Squares Dance Club. We‘d love to have you join us!
Copy Cats Retrieve Banner from Silver Squares—October 14, 2024 |
Banner Stealing is always fun. Copy Cats members visited Silver
Squares and took their banner back!
Don Naulin and Anne Granger, Presidents of Silver Squares, tried to
keep the banner but no luck. Banner Stealing promotes good will and a
lot of fun among clubs.
Charles J. Nientimp—June 15, 1939–September 13, 2024 |
Charlie Nientimp passed away peacefully at age 85 on Friday, September
13, 2024, at FF Thompson Hospital in Canandaigua, NY. He was born on
June 15, 1939, in Rochester, NY to the late George and Georgiana
Nientimp.
Charlie graduated from Edison Career and Technology High School in
1957 where he was a member of the swim team. After high school, he had
various jobs before his long career at Eastman Kodak where he worked
as a millwright in the utility division and retired as a technician in
the Engineering department. Upon retiring he enjoyed his time working
for Bill Gray’s and maintaining machinery at their many restaurants.
Charlie married Dale Scottow on October 25, 1991, and together they
were active in round and square dancing with area festivals, national
conventions, and many western NY area clubs including the Southern
Tier Wheelers and Cloverleaf Squares for 25 years. Charlie and Dale
enjoyed golfing, traveling and spending time with their large family
and many friends.
Charlie will be remembered for his love of his player piano, antique
cars and collecting beer steins. He enjoyed playing cards including
Euchre, Bridge and Cribbage along with sailing and fishing with his
family on Lake Ontario.
Charlie is predeceased by his wife of 29 years, Dale
M. Scottow-Nientimp, brothers, George (Eleanore) Nientimp and Gerald
(Babe) Nientimp, sisters, Helen (Richard) Miller, and Marion (Aaron)
Duke. He is survived by his children, Karen (Matthew) Caton, Jennifer
(David) Sauter, Christine (Rodney) Baumgartner, his step-children,
Penny (David) Wasnock-Toal, Mark (Marie) Wasnock, grandchildren
Benjamin M. Caton, Hope A. Caton, Tyler J. (Emily) Wheaton, Alyson
M. (Conner) Strickland, Molly K. Sauter, Collin D. Sauter, Joseph
L. Fisher, Reina E. Wasnock, Seiya A. Wasnock, Mia U. Wasnock, 2
great-grandchildren, special friend and companion Corky Trombley and
many nieces and nephews.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Leukemia
& Lymphoma Society www.lls.org. To share a memory or a condolence,
please visit: www.doughertyfuneralhomes.com
Recollections from Peter Emmel:
I remember the pleasure of dancing with Charlie and Dale, not only at
the Cloverleafs but also at several dances in western NY and (I think)
at some of the new-Year’s Eve dances held by the Village Squares years
ago. They even came to a few of the Village Squares Wednesday dances.
John R. Roden—July 9, 1941—October 1, 2024 |
John R. Roden, 83, of Weedsport, NY, passed away Tuesday, October 1,
2024, at St. Camillus Health & Rehabilitation Center in
Syracuse. Mr. Roden was born on July 9, 1941, in Bethlehem, CT., to
the late John S. and Alice Ruppel Roden. John was the former highway
superintendent for the Town of Brutus and a member of the Weedsport
Masonic Lodge. John’s true passion was farming. For many years he
worked on the family farm, Roden Brothers Farm. John was able to stay
at the farm, the place he loved for so long because of the help he
received from his son, Eric and daughter-in-law, Joanna as well as
their children, David, Erika, Timothy (Sarah) and Nicholas (Samantha).
In addition to his love of farming, he loved spending holidays with
Eric, Joanna, their children and especially his great grandchildren,
Jack, Benjamin Schmidt, Nathan Roden, Cru and Chase. John always had a
soft spot in his heart for his granddaughter Erika, who loved and
doted on him all the time.
John also loved square dancing. John and his wife, Dorothy, were both
members of the Cayuga Cut Ups for many, many years. John continued to
dance at the club after Dorothy passed away. John was loved by all of the
Cayuga Cut Ups and is greatly missed.
John is survived by his brother, Andrew Roden; sister Ellen (John)
Samoska; children, John B. Roden, Eric (Joanna) Roden, Amy Pierce,
Edmond Swan, Jennifer Swan, Peggy (Ron) Fredericks, and Tom (Linda)
Swan; several grandchildren and great grandchildren.
In addition to his parents, John was predeceased by his wife of 36
years, Dorothy Roden and his sister Alice Skarr.
The Roden family would like to acknowledge and thank John’s neighbors
on Oakland Rd. for always looking out for him.
To offer condolences to the family, please visit whitechapelfh.com.
Phyllis Brucker Smeltzer—October 23, 2024 |
Webster: Wednesday, October 23, 2024, age 77. She leaves behind her
husband and caregiver, Charles Smeltzer; her daughter, Heather Stokes
(Jeremy) and their children, Joe and Evie; her husband’s daughter,
Jenni Wetzler (Jim Hancock); her son, Jacob Brown (Vicki) and their
sons, Luciano and Domonic; her husband’s son, Matt Smeltzer (Jolene)
and their children, Rayna, Judah, Ziek and Lenora; sister, Carol
Scholz (Ken) and their children, Arthur Scholz (Kate, and their
children, Donald, Gordon and baby on the way, Karl Scholz and Eleanor
OLeary (Paddy); brother, Charlie Brucker (Rene) and their children,
Carl Brucker (Angelica) and Margaret Arata (Mike); sister, Cathy
Staehli (Joel Reed) and her daughter, Anna Wiser (Chris) and their
sons, Jaxon and Theo; foster brother, Herman Rolle.
Phyllis liked to stay active. She was a 4-H leader, Sunday School
teacher, Head of Trustees at Webster Presbyterian Church, Union
Secretary and then President of Webster Transportation. She enjoyed
Civil War reenacting with her husband.
The most recent source of her enjoyment was square dancing. She was a
bright star in the square dance community. She was always welcoming,
and her smile was infectious. Her positive attitude and incredible
outlook on everything drew people to her. As members of the Copy Cats
Dance Club, Phyllis and Charlie helped new members with their dance
skills. Phyllis helped people laugh and not take mistakes too
seriously. She was a lovely, gracious, lady who will be greatly
missed.
Her most important focus was her family. Joe and Evie living right
next door was so very wonderful. She was also able to be a caregiver
for her mother, which was a very rewarding experience. Mother passed
in 2023 and Daddy in 2006.
Family and friends gathered for a Graveside Service 2:00 PM Saturday,
November 16, at Webster Rural Cemetery and later attended a reception
at Webster Presbyterian Church.
Donations in Phyllis Smeltzer’s memory can be made to:
Bethlehem Family Services
Grace Covenant Church
224 Chestnut Ridge Rd
Rochester NY 14624
or online donations (on their website) to
Hildebrandt Hospice Care Center
2652 Ridgeway Ave
Rochester, NY 14626
This is part of Rochester Regional Health and their website recommends online donations
Square dancer comments:
“Any dance that Phyllis and Charlie attended was brightened by
Phyllis’s smile.”